Legend has it that nearly five thousand years ago a weary
traveller met Bansir, a wise old man at the outskirts of Babylon. He said to
him, ‘Sir, I have heard that the people of this city are unfriendly, wicked and
inhospitable to strangers.” The old man replied, ‘That is correct. These are
the kind of people you will meet here.’ The traveller continued on his journey.
Several hours later another traveller met Bansirat the same
spot. He also enquired from him, ‘Old man, I am new to this city and I have
heard that the people are caring and compassionate towards strangers.’ The wise
old man replied, “Yes you are correct. These are the people you will meet
here.”
Now Bansir’s response to both travellers was correct because
this story highlights an extremely important aspect in our race to wealth and
success, which is expectation. In the above story each person had a different
expectation about Babylon’s citizens, and what they expected was definitely their
experience…
This innate trait can be found predominantly in the life of
many of the wealthy and successful. As they set out to achieve their life’s
goals they do not expect not to achieve them! An encounter with the richest and
wealthiest people always makes those who lack wonder because they are always
upbeat and positive. They are this way because they expect things to go their
way all the time. Eventually events start to mold themselves and begin to
comply with their inner desires and eventually they get the desired result.
Positive expectations act like an invisible magnet that
draws you towards your goals. The benefits of expectations are manifold – they
build your faith and belief once you have set your goals; they activate a
trigger mechanism that forces you to reject negative outcomes and keep striving
till you get positive outcomes; they help one to focus on your goals as you
work from the inside out and they keep you inspired and motivated.
Many people use expectations in their relationships and
social life, but rarely use this tool in light of their finances and in
building wealth. Deploy the tool of expectations in your financial goals by affirming
what you expect to see happen to you financially in 2015. For example if your
goal is to make Ten Million Naira, you can affirm and also write it down that,
‘I expect to make Ten Million Naira this year’ or ‘I expect to receive winning
ideas that will cause me to earn Ten Million Naira in 2015!’
It is equally important to point out that having positive expectations
means that things will work out eventually over a period of time. It does not
mean things will always work out according to plan, which is perfection, a
state that one can only aspire to, but never attain. Expectation builds your
tenacity to go out there and try again, to never give up until things change
for the better! The rich and wealthy have failed many times, yet they refused
to stay in lack or poverty. Instead they brushed themselves and got up after
every failure expecting to see success at the next junction, and eventually
they did!
I want you to know that 2015 is not a peculiar year! In 2015
fortunes would be made and fortunes would be lost! The current economic
situation will make billionaires of some and paupers of others! These outcomes
are as constant as the sun rising in the east and setting in the west. The good
news is that you can choose what you intend to aspire to and work towards. Even
in times of uncertainty people continue to see opportunity which birth ideas
that lead to fortune! Expect to be one of them!
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